friends

       In China, we have a  proverb which is the called" same group of people are always get together, and some group of animals are always get together." I think all my friends have similar personality and similar value with me, so we can understand others more and also easy to find a topic that we are willing to talk about it.      
when i first time meet a person i do not really want to talk a lot because of we do not know each other, it was really hard to find an appropriate topic to talk. i do not know what is she or he likes, when i pick up a topic i was thinking it this topic ok to talk or he or she does not want to talk about it, so i have to waiting for someone to talk first, to be honest, i am an emotional person so i really do not want to hurt someone, for example i do not willing to ask personal question until they tell me about it, so do i , i do not like someone talk to me about how's going with you and your boyfriend, or what did you do last night? or how many boy friend do you have?  so when i make friend i want to find someone have same personality, more kind and more helpful! if we have an appointment i do not like my friend show up late or just never show up there are my value so, i need all my friend have same value as me, not too much, just show up on time, do not always use bad words, i do not mean never use it to be honest, i use bad words sometimes, but not always!  be kind be nice, and the most important thing is to be honest to me, that all i my respect for my friends